Whatever problems come to us from
beings or inanimate
objects, if our mind gets used to perceiving only the suffering or the
negative aspects of them, then even from a small negative incident
great
mental pain will ensue. For it is the nature of indulgence in any
concept,
whether suffering or happiness, that the experience [will be
intensified
by that indulgence. As] negative experience gradually becomes stronger,
a time will come when most of what appears before us will become the
cause
of bringing us unhappiness, and happiness will never have a chance to
arise.
If we do not realize that the fault lies with our own mind's way of
gaining
experience, and if we blame all our problems on the external conditions
alone, then the ceaseless flame of habitual negative deeds such as
hatred
and suffering will increase in us. That is called: "All appearances
arising
in the form of enemies."
-- Dodrupchen
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The near universal appreciation of these spiritual practices stemmed primarily from their practical effectiveness in fostering basic sanity, compassion, and understanding -- progress on the path toward enlightenment -- but over time certain meditation practices were recognized as especially appropriate for emphasis by people troubled by physical or psychological illness, and those who want to help them. This page focuses on some of those practices.
Since the readers of this page are mostly going to be natives of Western countries, or countries that have been strongly influenced by it, we should note that for people steeped in Western culture, just about any form of Tibetan Buddhist meditation, or indeed any form of Buddhist Meditation at all, could be considered a healing meditation, especially for stress-related illness. That's why sections on the mindfulness/awareness and tonglen practices are included on this page.
In traditional Tibetan culture, people lived close to the earth. There were no alarm clocks and no pagers, and to talk to someone you had to actually go to where they were and have a conversation. Nearly everyone had some sort of spiritual practice, and most people were practicing meditation every day. In that context, it made sense to single out certain practices as healing meditations. For us, though, any meditation practice that we actually enjoy doing is likely to have a beneficial effect on our health and longevity.
The Tibetans also used other spiritual practices that might not be called 'meditation,' but which were considered beneficial for fostering health and well being, and for healing illness. Building stupas, raising prayer flags, setting up large prayer wheels, and going on pilgrimages are good examples of practices that heal bodies and minds as well as spirits. Even Tibetan herbal medicine combines spiritual and physical healing. Physicians constantly repeat mantras (prayers) while gathering and preparing ingredients for the medicines, and while working with their patients. Moreover, some types of Tibetan medicines contain substances that are considered sacred. These other types of spiritually empowered healing are the topic of another page:
Second, with meditation, as with any skill involving coordination of mind and body, working with someone who has developed some mastery of the method and its application is highly recommended. On another page we give links for contacting a Tibetan Buddhist meditation center:
"It is no measure of health to be adjusted to a profoundly sick society."
-- Krishnamurti
-- found on a cocktail napkin
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The most basic way to train oneself to be more aware of what is actually going on in any situation, including various aspects of ones health, is a certain type of meditation practice, called shi-né (she nay) in Tibetan (Sanskrit shamatha). This term has been translated into English as "mindfulness practice"; however, a more literal translation of the Tibetan term would be "abiding in peace of mind."
Shi-né is the most common form of meditation, not only in Tibet but in other Buddhist countries. It is the basis of Zen, of Theravadin or Insight meditation, and of the Tibetan meditation practices involving visualization. It is also the basic practice of the Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction approach developed to help patients deal with illness.
A traditional analogy is sometimes used to give a student a quick glimpse of this practice and how it works. An image of a candle flame, flickering in the breeze, is compared to our mind, tossed around by conflicting emotions. Shi-né practice is like putting a glass chimney around the candle, letting it burn steadily and clearly. The practice eventually leads to a relaxed awareness of every aspect of the situation, to what is called "panoramic awareness" (Tibetan lah-tong; Sanskrit vipashyana), which naturally allows one to develop insight into oneself and others.
Unbiased awareness automatically tends toward appropriate action. When ones mind and body are synchronized, when what is actually present is experienced on the spot, ones actions mesh with the situation as it truly is. Developing such basic sanity, such genuine presence in the actual situation, is possible for all of us.
Shi-né practice helps to reduce stress in two ways. First, as the translation "abiding in peace" implies, it directly affects the self- induced stress that stems from entanglement with our internal soap operas, by letting us have thoughts without identifying with them. Secondly, our actions will tend to be more appropriate, and thus more effective — having fewer negative side effects — so that external causes of stress will be reduced.
Doctors tell us that many of the most debilitating illnesses in our modern lives are stress induced. Stress not only makes us miserable, it can make us ill: Prolonged extreme stress is devastating to the immune system. Reducing stress not only helps us feel better, it can actually help in the healing of many physical ailments.
The Resources section of this page provides links to simple instructions for practicing meditation, available on the Web and in books, and links to Tibetan Buddhist meditation centers, where one can establish a relationship with an experienced meditation instructor.
-- basic meditation instructionTonglen (Sending and Taking)
Efforts toward developing basic sanity, using mindfulness/awareness
practice, can help us to improve our own health and other aspects of
our
personal situation. As we become more aware of what is really going on,
we are more effective in working with it. However, when other people
are
involved, and especially if we are trying to help them, we might need
something
more.
When Buddha discovered sitting practice, he was living alone under a tree, and when he started teaching he had already discovered his true nature. Part of what he learned was that he was not separate from other living beings.
Meditators who continue interacting with other people, rather than living alone in a cave, may find them highly irritating at times. Ones hard-earned peace of mind scatters like autumn leaves before a stiff breeze and we find ourselves wallowing in neurotic upheavals of all sorts.
Tonglen practice — exchanging oneself, in our imagination, with others who are suffering — gives us a way to work with that, a way to dissolve our desperate clinging to separateness. Before we can really practice tonglen, however, we need to find a way to genuinely connect to our own compassion.
Sogyal Rinpoche suggests that seeing someone in pain, in person or on the news, could inspire us to meditate on compassion. "Any one of these sights could open the eyes of your heart to the fact of vast suffering in the world. Let it. Don't waste the love and grief it arouses; in the moment you feel compassion welling up in you, don't brush it aside, don't shrug it off and try quickly to return to 'normal,' don't be afraid of your feeling or embarrassed by it, or allow yourself to be distracted from it or let it run aground in apathy. Be vulnerable; use that quick, bright uprush of compassion; focus on it, go deep in your heart and meditate on it, develop it, enhance, and deepen it. By doing this you will realize how blind you have been to suffering, how the pain that you are experiencing or seeing now is only a tiny fraction of the pain of the world.
"All beings, everywhere, suffer; let your heart go out to them all in spontaneous and immeasurable compassion, and direct that compassion, along with the blessing of all the Buddhas, to the alleviation of suffering everywhere.
"Compassion is a far greater and nobler thing than pity. Pity has its roots in fear, and a sense of arrogance and condescension, sometimes even a smug feeling of 'I'm glad it's not me.' As Stephen Levine says: 'When your fear touches someone's pain it becomes pity; when your love touches someone's pain, it becomes compassion.' To train in compassion, then, is to know all beings are the same and suffer in similar ways, to honor all those who suffer, and to know you
are neither separate from nor superior to anyone."
Pema Chödrön, in Start Where You Are, gives instructions for the tonglen practice itself. Here is a brief excerpt about the main practice:
"You breathe in the pain of a specific person or animal that you wish to help. You breathe out to that person spaciousness or kindness or a good meal or a cup of coffee - whatever you feel would lighten their load. You can do this for anyone: the homeless mother that you pass on the street, your suicidal uncle, or yourself and the pain you are feeling at that very moment. The main point is that the suffering should be real, totally untheoretical. It should be heartfelt, tangible, honest, and vivid."
After a while you expand the exchange: "You use specific instances of misery and pain as a stepping stone for understanding the universal suffering of people and animals everywhere. .... What you feel for one person, you can extend to all people."
"You need to work with ... both the immediate suffering of one person and the universal suffering of all. .... Working with both situations together makes the practice real and heartfelt; at the same time, it provides vision and a way for you to work with everyone else in the world."
Tonglen practice is part of the Seven Points of Mind Training, a widely cherished set of guidelines for bringing adverse situations onto the path of meditation, and developing bodhichitta — the unconditional compassion which waters the seed of Buddhahood.
To learn more about the tonglen practice or the Seven Points of Mind Training, look in the Resources section at the end of this page for links to instructions on the Web, and for more detailed information in books.
"Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings."
"The tonglen practice is a method for
connecting with
suffering – ours and that which is all around us – everywhere we go. It
is a method for overcoming fear of suffering and for dissolving the
tightness
of our heart. Primarily it is a method for awakening the compassion
that
is inherent in all of us, no matter how cruel or cold we might seem to
be."
-- Pema
Chödrön
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When Buddha discovered sitting practice, he was living alone under a tree, and when he started teaching he had already discovered his true nature. Part of what he learned was that he was not separate from other living beings.
Meditators who continue interacting with other people, rather than living alone in a cave, may find them highly irritating at times. Ones hard-earned peace of mind scatters like autumn leaves before a stiff breeze and we find ourselves wallowing in neurotic upheavals of all sorts.
Tonglen practice — exchanging oneself, in our imagination, with others who are suffering — gives us a way to work with that, a way to dissolve our desperate clinging to separateness. Before we can really practice tonglen, however, we need to find a way to genuinely connect to our own compassion.
Sogyal Rinpoche suggests that seeing someone in pain, in person or on the news, could inspire us to meditate on compassion. "Any one of these sights could open the eyes of your heart to the fact of vast suffering in the world. Let it. Don't waste the love and grief it arouses; in the moment you feel compassion welling up in you, don't brush it aside, don't shrug it off and try quickly to return to 'normal,' don't be afraid of your feeling or embarrassed by it, or allow yourself to be distracted from it or let it run aground in apathy. Be vulnerable; use that quick, bright uprush of compassion; focus on it, go deep in your heart and meditate on it, develop it, enhance, and deepen it. By doing this you will realize how blind you have been to suffering, how the pain that you are experiencing or seeing now is only a tiny fraction of the pain of the world.
"All beings, everywhere, suffer; let your heart go out to them all in spontaneous and immeasurable compassion, and direct that compassion, along with the blessing of all the Buddhas, to the alleviation of suffering everywhere.
"Compassion is a far greater and nobler thing than pity. Pity has its roots in fear, and a sense of arrogance and condescension, sometimes even a smug feeling of 'I'm glad it's not me.' As Stephen Levine says: 'When your fear touches someone's pain it becomes pity; when your love touches someone's pain, it becomes compassion.' To train in compassion, then, is to know all beings are the same and suffer in similar ways, to honor all those who suffer, and to know you
are neither separate from nor superior to anyone."
Pema Chödrön, in Start Where You Are, gives instructions for the tonglen practice itself. Here is a brief excerpt about the main practice:
"You breathe in the pain of a specific person or animal that you wish to help. You breathe out to that person spaciousness or kindness or a good meal or a cup of coffee - whatever you feel would lighten their load. You can do this for anyone: the homeless mother that you pass on the street, your suicidal uncle, or yourself and the pain you are feeling at that very moment. The main point is that the suffering should be real, totally untheoretical. It should be heartfelt, tangible, honest, and vivid."
After a while you expand the exchange: "You use specific instances of misery and pain as a stepping stone for understanding the universal suffering of people and animals everywhere. .... What you feel for one person, you can extend to all people."
"You need to work with ... both the immediate suffering of one person and the universal suffering of all. .... Working with both situations together makes the practice real and heartfelt; at the same time, it provides vision and a way for you to work with everyone else in the world."
Tonglen practice is part of the Seven Points of Mind Training, a widely cherished set of guidelines for bringing adverse situations onto the path of meditation, and developing bodhichitta — the unconditional compassion which waters the seed of Buddhahood.
To learn more about the tonglen practice or the Seven Points of Mind Training, look in the Resources section at the end of this page for links to instructions on the Web, and for more detailed information in books.
"Use what seems like poison as medicine. Use your personal suffering as the path to compassion for all beings."
-- Pema
ChödrönVisualization
Buddhism offers many different types of mental
and physical
and spiritual exercises to help individuals move toward the goal of
awakening.
One form of practice, highly respected by Tibetan Buddhists, is to
connect
with the qualities of an enlightened being, one who is already awake,
as
an example and inspiration.
Although all the enlightened beings used in these practices are fully awake and in complete possession of all the superlative qualities of a Buddha, various awakened beings are seen as manifesting especially vividly different aspects of awakened mind. For example, as the passage quoted above suggests, the Medicine Buddha is especially useful in connecting with the healing power of awakening. Other enlightened beings commonly used as the focus of healing practices are Amitayus, the Buddha of Long Life, Chenrezig, the Bodhisattva of Compassion, and Tara, Mother of the Buddhas.
In addition to fostering in a general way ones ability to heal oneself and others, these practices can be specifically focused on the healing of a particular problem, again in oneself or in someone else, or in a group of people. For example, a meditation on the Medicine Buddha could be focused on benefiting people with a particular disease, and helping people to avoid contracting that particular illness.
Information on The Medicine Buddha, Chenrezig and Tara, and the practices associated with them, can be found on the following pages:
Medicine
Buddha Resources
Chenrezig: Embodiment of Compassion
Who is Arya Tara?
The basic forms of all these practices are
open to anyone
who wishes to use them. Taking the vajrayana initiation (empowerment)
of
the Buddha aspect that you want to work with is highly recommended, but
you can begin the practice without waiting for that.
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Distant Healing
Many Tibetan lamas of all
traditions
will perform special spiritual practices (pujas) for the benefit of
individuals
who are ill or recently deceased. A donation is appropriate to cover
the
cost of the materials (incense, etc.) used in the practice. Additional
funds to support the work of the lamas are always welcome; Tibetans
believe
that such gifts add to the effectiveness of the blessing ceremony.
Tibetan
Buddhist Centers
Healing Buddha Foundation is a very good example
of this
type of practice. On their Web site they have a page devoted to
offering
"special pujas and distant healing for Buddhists and non Buddhists
alike
who are experiencing all types of difficulties —
physical,
emotional, mental, or spiritual."
Special
Pujas
and Distant Healing
"If one meditates on the Medicine Buddha, one will eventually attain enlightenment, but in the meantime one will experience an increase in healing powers both for oneself and others and a decrease in physical and mental illness and suffering." |
Although all the enlightened beings used in these practices are fully awake and in complete possession of all the superlative qualities of a Buddha, various awakened beings are seen as manifesting especially vividly different aspects of awakened mind. For example, as the passage quoted above suggests, the Medicine Buddha is especially useful in connecting with the healing power of awakening. Other enlightened beings commonly used as the focus of healing practices are Amitayus, the Buddha of Long Life, Chenrezig, the Bodhisattva of Compassion, and Tara, Mother of the Buddhas.
In addition to fostering in a general way ones ability to heal oneself and others, these practices can be specifically focused on the healing of a particular problem, again in oneself or in someone else, or in a group of people. For example, a meditation on the Medicine Buddha could be focused on benefiting people with a particular disease, and helping people to avoid contracting that particular illness.
Information on The Medicine Buddha, Chenrezig and Tara, and the practices associated with them, can be found on the following pages:
Chenrezig: Embodiment of Compassion
Who is Arya Tara?
"Most tantrayana or vajrayana
visualization and mantra
practices require that an initiation and subsequent authorization and
instruction
be given by a qualified lama before the sadhana, or ritual practice,
can
begin. However, a few practices, those that were given publicly by Lord
Buddha Shakyamuni, do not fall under such restrictions. Very
definitely,
all the practices given in the Sutras have the full blessing of the
Buddha
and therefore can be practiced if one has the aspiration to do so."
--Kalu Rinpoche
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The most familiar example is Om Mani Padme Hum,the most widely used mantra in Tibet and in many other Buddhist communities. Here it is written in Tibetan script. Tibetan Buddhists believe that saying this mantra, out loud or silently to oneself, invokes the powerful benevolent attention of Chenrezig, the Bodhisattva of Compassion.
Anyone can begin the practice of repeating these mantras. However, it is said that for these practices to be fully effective, one should obtain refuge, the empowerment and oral instructions for the practice from a qualified lama. The lamas have already been introduced to the energy of these enlightened beings by their own teachers, and they can pass that introduction along to you — but you can begin practicing the mantra immediately, before you obtain the empowerment. In fact, beginning the practice may help to clear up any obstacles to finding a lama and arranging to receive the transmission. |
A short teaching by Lama Zopa, Rinpoche specifically discusses the value of prayer wheel practice for healing: You can learn much more about them, including how to purchase one, on our page about mani wheels:
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